Isnt that how one loses himself/herself?
When one depends largely on another to survive,
Like a parasite,
He'll/She'll be risking a part of himself/herself
Subjecting his/her own fate to the influence of that other.
Meaning to say,
dependence is extremely dangerous.
It determines which way you're going
Whther it be jumping to your death off the cliff
or walking in front of a speeding car.
And when i talk about 'depend'
i mean everything under the sun.
Such as depending on a substance;
drugs, ciggarettes, internet, technology,
or a somebody.
When u allow yourself to depend on something/someone
you're giving up a whole lot of your freedom of choice.
because you dont have the power to decide anymore.
Its in the hands of that other.
And true enough, you'll lose yourself.
Its like losing your control over the steering wheel.
You cant drive properly, accidents happen.
If you want happiness,
Discover, know, love yourself.
Gain complete control of your life.
NEVER DEPEND.
2 comments:
I feel that there can be a certain degree of dependency. Don't all of us want to feel secured and comfortable at times? It's an inevitable fact of humans to feel that way. Extreme ends of any spectrum are just too idealistic. In the real world, there are no such ends. If there were, the world would be perfect when it is otherwise. Therefore, I feel that one can be dependent on a material/substance/someone as long as he or she is prepared for the time when the material/substance/someone is no longer available at his or her disposal.
The only source of being that is worthy and safe to depend on eternally is none other than Allah S.W.T, my dear young self. You can never be lost if you place full trust and faith in him because He is the Greatest, the Most Compassionate, the Most Loving.
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